I don't remember that. In the living room, I guess. We had a big library
table; I guess it was there. At any rate, she was an excellent teacher.
Of course, I knew how to read. She had taught me to read before I was
six. But we had a grand time, and I had sort of learned along with my
sister, who was one year ahead of me in school. She taught me, and I
entered school in the first grade in January, and at the end I was up
with the class. In fact, I was a tad ahead of them, so Mother always
told me. At any rate, at the end of the year they wanted me to skip a
year, and my mother wouldn't let me, and I'm so grateful that she
didn't, because I was small and the youngest one in the class anyhow.
She felt that it would not be in my best interest to skip a grade, and
she was absolutely right. I went on in the second grade, unknown though sometimes I had the advantage of knowing
some of the material because I still learned along with my sister when
she was working on her lessons. I got along
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well; I had no problems. Mother then didn't do any teaching until. . . .
I don't remember the year, but at a period of time, and I'm reasonably
certain it was after the Depression had started to work itself out. At
any rate, within a period of time back in those days, there was a
program by the federal government to teach adults who had not had an
opportunity to go to school. Mother volunteered for that program and
taught. In Wilson there were many people, although we didn't know it,
who could not write their name or couldn't read. She taught a group of
men and women at night, and it was a real challenge for her, and she
enjoyed it thoroughly and obviously was a good teacher, because her
students would call her. They'd get involved in a simple arithmetic
problem, whether eight and ten are eighteen or twenty-eight, and they'd
get fussing and they'd call her to settle the argument. She taught many
of them to read and to sign their name. The thing that I recall so
vividly was how proud she said they were when they could finally write
their name and when they could read a newspaper, even the headline. I'm
convinced that she was an excellent teacher. She was an excellent
teacher in many ways. She had a strong moral character, and I think that
was taught her by her own parents. My grandmother was a strong moral
character but had a lot of humor about her, too. My mother taught by
precept and example, as well as from the printed page. She was a true
lady in every sense of the word, in my opinion, and I think that's what
everybody who knew her would say. She was ill for the last, possibly,
fifteen or eighteen years of her life, not an invalid, but ill. She had
a heart attack the year after I finished law school, a very severe heart
attack, and, although she recovered from that, she from that point on
began to have illnesses,
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recovered from all of them except the last stroke, and had to have
somebody with her during the last years of her life, although she was
never an invalid. She still could play bridge. She couldn't drive a car,
but she had someone to drive it for her. She loved life; she was willing
to accept most any challenge that came her way; she was just a really
fine person. She expected a lot of her children, and as a result she got
a lot. She was perfectly capable of saying no and standing by it. When I
was a child, we were never allowed to sleep late on Saturdays. We got up
on Saturdays and Sundays the same time we did any other day. Although we
had help at the house, we had our jobs to do on Saturday. I know now
that she had a difficult time finding things for us to do, to give us
responsibility. It didn't make any difference who came or who came by
for us or whatever; until we had done our little chores, we could not
leave on Saturday morning. I remember one Saturday morning she had told
me to wash my underwear, and I was doing it but complaining every step
of the way, because some people had come by and were waiting for me. I
said, "Well, Mother, why can't Nellie do this for me?"
Nellie was the maid. She said, "Well, of course, Nellie could
do it for you, but it wouldn't do you any good." And I thought,
"Well, that's the silliest statement I've ever heard,"
but now I know exactly what she meant, and she was exactly right. It was
her way of teaching us responsibility, and it worked. She was an unusual
person but a very fine lady. She had a multitude of friends, and I never
heard anybody say anything about her. If I had, I probably would have
knocked them down. Even the nurses who were with her in the last days of
her illness said that
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she drew her last breath, which I thought was a fine compliment, and she
did.