Social life in a rural community
Spaulding describes some of the social traditions in the rural area of North Carolina where he grew up in the early 1900s. Church was a central element of life in this rural community, and so was visiting. He remembers once stowing away in his father's buggy when his father set off on one of his social calls.
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Oral History Interview with Asa T. Spaulding, April 13, 1979. Interview C-0013-1. Southern Oral History Program Collection (#4007) in the Southern Oral History Program Collection, Southern Historical Collection, Wilson Library, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.
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- WALTER WEARE:
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Now this community was essentially rural. There were two towns there,
Whiteville?
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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Whiteville was the county seat in Columbus County. Clarkton was in Bladen
County. But it was only nine miles from this community. You see,
Whiteville was on the southern tip of the community; Clarkton was on the
northwestern tip. Rosendale, which was no more than a railroad station,
was directly north of where I lived. Whiteville was directly south.
- WALTER WEARE:
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Was there a name for this rural community? Was it distinctive in the
sense that it had a name that you'd know it when you got to
it?
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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Well, it was more or less the Spaulding and Moore area. In the earliest
part of the ancestry, those were the names, but others began to come in.
You see, what happened, just like my mother got down there, you see. The
movement in those early years, even before slavery—in other
words, they're not nomads as such, but people who were
drifting down? Just like in Europe, you know, when certain tribes, or
certain groups would come in as invaders and all. So where the people
from Roberson County go down there. My mother was the first one to come
into that community.
- WALTER WEARE:
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Do you know anything about the community before she got there?
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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No, I don't know. Because, see, I wasn't born.
Where you heard more conversation would be at church after service.
People would gather around the church yard and talk.
That's where you had your social life, you know. You were
working all day on the farm, every day of the week. Except my father had
a habit. And he would get in his horse and buggy and drove from place to
place, talking.
- WALTER WEARE:
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To visit?
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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To visit. He would look forward to that, and they'd look
forward to his coming, to break the monotony.
- WALTER WEARE:
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Was that his tradition that he created?
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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Well, it was traditional with him. I don't remember anyone
else who'd do it.
- WALTER WEARE:
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Not associated with the church?
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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Just friends, you know. Some were of the Methodist Church and some of the
Baptist Church. Had two of them there. We would go to the Methodist
Church every Sunday, except the fourth Sunday. On the fourth Sunday,
we'd go to the Baptist Church for Sunday school, and for
preaching services, we'd go to the Baptist Church. Because
the preacher would come down from Lumberton and preach at the Baptist
Church on the fourth Sunday of the month. And they, the Baptists, would
come to the Rehobeth Church, which was a Methodist Church, the first
Sunday, when they had their preacher. See, the preachers at that time
had four churches. One on the first Sunday, the other on the second, and
around, make the circuit.
- WALTER WEARE:
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A circuit-riding preacher.
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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That's right. That was in the early nineteen hundreds.
- WALTER WEARE:
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Is this one of your earliest memories, going to church, or being with
your father on these buggy rides?
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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Oh, there's a little trick I played on him. I don't
remember what year it was, but I guess I was about eight. This
particular day I hitched the horse up for him, you
know, to the buggy. And he got in the buggy. I wanted to go with him,
and he said I couldn't go. The buggy had a little covered
area behind the seat, you know, where you put groceries and things in
there, with a lid over it. I pushed that up and sat in that buggy. And
he was driving along, and he didn't know I was with him. He
got almost to the first stop where they had a fence with an entrance
gate that you [unclear] to open to get
into this home. And I knew it had to be opened. Before he got out to
open it, I stood up behind him. I said, "I'm here.
I'll open the gate for you."
[Laughter] He was so outdone he didn't know what
to do.
- WALTER WEARE:
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He forgave you for that?
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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He forgave me. And I rode with him the rest of the round.
That's one of my earliest experiences of that type of
thing.