Reflections on a balanced life
Spaulding reflects on balance. The interviewer is seeking Spaulding's thoughts on Durham's culture, wondering if the city's residents were more devoted to work than to play. Spaulding uses this opportunity to argue for the importance of a balanced life, one that eschews greed and seeks spiritual satisfaction.
Citing this Excerpt
Oral History Interview with Asa T. Spaulding, April 13, 1979. Interview C-0013-1. Southern Oral History Program Collection (#4007) in the Southern Oral History Program Collection, Southern Historical Collection, Wilson Library, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.
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- WALTER WEARE:
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I'm interested in the fabric of life here, the social life,
how people….
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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Social life is important here, but it's not all. You find some
cities where people strive to be the social leader. People like social
life here, but it's not the all-goal in life. It has
it's place.
- WALTER WEARE:
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What kind of outlets would there have been say in the thirties or
forties?
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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Families, or certain people, they would have parties and things, then,
and still have them now.
- WALTER WEARE:
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But with segregation, there were no restaurants by and large, and no
theatres.
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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No. Well, you see, you had your own black theatres. Had some nice
theatres here in the thirties, very nice theatres, and very nice
shows—first-run shows. I mean, the movies.
- WALTER WEARE:
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Were there other forms of entertainment? Were there stage shows,
vaudeville?
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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Oh, they would have their dances. And the sororities would have their
parties, you know, and dances, and things of that nature.
- WALTER WEARE:
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What about music here? Did the big bands come in?
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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Uh huh.
- WALTER WEARE:
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Both jazz and…
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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Yes. But where they got too rowdy I didn't go to.
- WALTER WEARE:
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Was there a kind of distinction then in entertainment that working-class
people might prefer one type of music?
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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Well, I wouldn't categorize it that way, but a lot of
working-class people were just as sober and sane.
- WALTER WEARE:
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I'm trying to get at this texture of this fabled black middle
class in Durham, if they had a distinctive social life and community
institutions that would set them apart.
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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That's a judgement decision, or opinion, and I'm
not sure I can read the innermost thoughts or feelings well enough to
make a statement to go down in history, as categorizing it.
- WALTER WEARE:
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Well, there's this outside view. Frazier wrote about it,
saying that in Durham, you find none of the life and leisure you find in
Harlem, but rather the Protestant ethic, the work ethic.
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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That's true. I'm a firm believer in the work
ethic.
- WALTER WEARE:
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How that translated itself into everyday life. Was there, as he was
suggesting, less excitement in a way?
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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Well, I'm a firm believer in balance, a balanced life. And you
can take that any way you want to. You can look at it from a business
standpoint—a balance sheet. If it's out of
balance, that corporation is unhealthy; it's not well
managed. And it can be out of balance in many ways: in forms of
investments, or as liabilities exceeding its assets, or the proportion
of assets of one type or another. You have a different expense
from when it's in better balance. If
the chemistry of your body is out of balance, you don't have
a healthy body. You may have diabetes; you may have this or that or the
other. And I think that thing runs through life. When the forces of
nature get out of balance, what do you have? The tornadoes, the floods.
In other words—well I guess that says it. I may
be—and if I am, I am, I have to be me—I may be
from this modern standpoint, an old fogey. But I think there are some
eternal values that will hold good anytime. Now, honesty may not seem
the best policy to the person who wants to get rich quickly, but he may
get it improperly, and then he may wish later he didn't have
it, because of the consequences. Another lesson—and I
don't want to fill that too full of references to the
bible—but you know the parable of the rich farmer, who had
such a harvest that his barns wouldn't hold it. Now, he
didn't say a thing about sharing it, did he? He said,
I'm going to tear down these barns and build me new ones, and
put it all in there. And then for what? So that I can sit down and tell
my soul to be at ease, because I don't have to worry anymore
the rest of my life. He didn't see anybody around him that he
could share it with. The thought didn't occur to him. And
what does the parable say? Whether this actually happened, I think
it's good teaching. ‘Thou fool. This night thy
soul is required of thee. To whom shall this go?’
What'll happen to it? All we remember about him is not the
good he did, but how foolish he was in his value system. So these kinds
of things, and I guess travel and exposures, and meeting all kinds of
people and all kinds of circumstances. I had an experience with Idi Amin
in Liberia in 1976. And when I read what happened yesterday, I
wasn't surprised. Because these things may flourish for a
season.
- WALTER WEARE:
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When you met him in '76 something happened?
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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No. Just to size the man up. The way that he came into the church that
Sunday afternoon to the services. This whole thing just covered
with—what do you call them?
- WALTER WEARE:
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Medals?
- ASA T. SPAULDING:
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Medals, yes. And two .44's, one on each side. And he sat
through that sermon, and the way he looked, a solemn, mean look on his
face. Not moved by anything. I said, ‘Is this a human being?
Is it possible for him to have any empathy for anybody?’ And
then I heard of some of the atrocities that happened under him, and I
saw on T.V. the other night, Shakespeare's "Measure
for Measure", and in the end how things turned out. And I
thought of that statement, ‘The measure you meet is the
measure that will come back to you.’ If you really study life
and people, the rise and fall of nations, and things like that, it seems
to me like I see a thread running through there that says something. I
didn't want to preach a sermon