A variety of recreations in rural North Carolina
Elmore describes two very different modes of recreation in this excerpt. Churchgoing was the focus of social life in Elmore Crossroads, but men found time to gather at the local store to smoke, drink if liquor was available, and swap stories. Elmore also remembers also playing with dogs and fishing with friends.
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Oral History Interview with George R. Elmore, March 11, 1976. Interview H-0266. Southern Oral History Program Collection (#4007) in the Southern Oral History Program Collection, Southern Historical Collection, Wilson Library, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.
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- BRENT GLASS:
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Tell me a little bit about Elmore Crossroads. What kind of community was
it? What would people do as a community?
- GEORGE R. ELMORE:
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Nothing except in the church. My grandfather had given land for Bethesda
Church, right across in front of the house, and that's where
the graveyard is now. And one of his daughters lived right west of the
graveyard facing towards Gastonia, and my father right straight across.
And he had a brother that had his house right behind the church.
- BRENT GLASS:
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Was this a Baptist church?
- GEORGE R. ELMORE:
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No, it was a Methodist church. He gave that land and most of the wood to
build the first church. And long about 1909 or '10 they built
another church; it had two steeples. And of course that was torn away
about eight or ten years ago, and the church was moved down right at the
crossroad and rebuilt in brick. But there's still a cemetery
there and a Sunday school building on the old Elmore plot.
- BRENT GLASS:
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In what ways would you get together with neighbors other than the
church?
- GEORGE R. ELMORE:
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Well, there was a store there at the crossroad; and Lord have mercy, that
was a clearing place for everything for two or three miles around.
People would come in there on rainy days and chew tobacco and smoke. And
anybody that had a bottle of liquor at night, why they… They
didn't close the store 'til nine or ten
o'clock. And for the men they pitched horseshoes, and maybe
they'd have a turkey shoot or most anything,
horseracing or anything else.
- BRENT GLASS:
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Right there at the store?
- GEORGE R. ELMORE:
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Yes, that was the gathering spot for everywheres.
- BRENT GLASS:
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Do you remember sitting in and listening to the men talk?
- GEORGE R. ELMORE:
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Well, I was hanging around there from the time I was seven or eight years
old.
- BRENT GLASS:
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What kind of things would they talk about?
- GEORGE R. ELMORE:
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[laughter] Well, a lot of them talked about
women. And all the scandal in the neighborhood. They didn't
mind discussing. I learned more, knew more about things, I guess, by the
time I was ten years old than a lot of people did at twenty. But they
didn't … the kids were supposed to know everything
that was going on.
- BRENT GLASS:
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They didn't protect you from any of that?
- GEORGE R. ELMORE:
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Oh no. And of course when you went into the mill you heard the dirty side
of life all the time.
- BRENT GLASS:
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In the textile mills?
- GEORGE R. ELMORE:
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Oh yes. They had no scruples at all.
- BRENT GLASS:
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So you mean the things about the opposite sex, for instance?
- GEORGE R. ELMORE:
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Yes.
- BRENT GLASS:
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That's the way that kind of information was communicated to
you?
- GEORGE R. ELMORE:
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That's right.
- BRENT GLASS:
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No one ever sat you down directly and said directly, "This is
the way it is." You just sort of picked it up?
That's it. Well, there was my brother and I, and two Forbes
boys about our age, three Elmore boys (first cousins) that lived right
across the road——they were my age and a little
older—and three Ford boys (first
cousins that lived just below the church). And we stayed around that
store and pitched horseshoes during the summer, or most anything. One of
the main sports we used to have was if you could get a fox hide or a
possum hide or something like that, two or three of the boys maybe would
go for thirty minutes and drag it two or three miles. Then
they'd turn dogs loose and they would trail that thing
around. Oh man, if we'd get held to a hide we'd
wear them out. But the two boys would take and drag it, and they would
go far right into the woods two and three miles and then circle around
and come back.
- BRENT GLASS:
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Just to see the dogs run around?
- GEORGE R. ELMORE:
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Hear 'em run at night. Then of course we'd go
possum hunting and all those kind of things at night. And of course we
roamed near the two creeks (one was about a mile west of us and one
about a mile east) and that river there at Oramerton. We did a lot of
fishing in those.