Socialization and communal nature of rural residents
Holt diverges from the traditional story of rural community togetherness. Instead, she discusses how the spatial isolation of the rural community prevented frequent gathering, except during times of duress. She also explains the importance of the church and the school for socialization.
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Oral History Interview with Nancy Holt, October 27, 1985. Interview K-0010. Southern Oral History Program Collection (#4007) in the Southern Oral History Program Collection, Southern Historical Collection, Wilson Library, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.
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- FRANCES E. WEBB:
I think I'd like to start out talking about maybe your
childhood and growing up in this area and things like how many, how much
of your family lived here and what kind of relationship you had with
other people in the neighborhood and that sort of thing.
- NANCY HOLT:
There was twelve children in our family and, we, because there were no
other children in this area and because of the isolation that most
people maintained then except on Saturdays and Sundays and in times of
need. The unique thing about this community I think is that you -
there's not alot of exchange and visiting on a regular basis,
but if there is a definite need, you can be sure that the neighbors will
come in to help whether it is raising a barn or helping at the time of
death or illness. But as children, our first real social contact other
than church was at school. And we had, of course living on a, a small
farm having that many children, your summers were pretty well taken up
with preserving food and doing all sorts of things that were necessary
to get back to the point that you were ready for another winter. And it
truly was a seasonal kind of life. Our closest neighbors, of course, was
the Armstrongs and I can remember as a child going down there and
hearing the guinea hens way before you could get there. And Miss Dinah,
Coy Armstrong's mother, was an elegant lady with of lots of
white hair all piled up on her head and if she would let down her hair
it would come to the back of her heels - beautiful, beautiful woman. And
then the Bradshaws and the Apples around here. We all knew each other.
It was certainly a cordial relationship, but
primarily all visiting was family oriented. The families got together
every Sunday for Sunday dinner. Everybody came back home. And I think
that was true for other families too.