I still used it at East Mecklenburg. I know I used it. When we were all
black there wasn't a problem. When I came to Charlotte I went to several
churches. I went to Seventh Street Presbyterian Church. I went to First
Baptist Church West. I went to several of them. I went to Greenville.
When I went over to Greenville that Sunday I was teaching industrial
arts. When the kids would come to class you talked to them and asked
them what church they belonged to. I wanted to go to the church where my
students were coming from. I wanted to meet their parents. I ended up
going to Greenville. A lot of the teachers would go to Grace, and they'd
go to First Baptist West, and Friendship, but I selected the church of
my students. I wanted to meet their parents, and I did. I see the
parents, and I'd say, "Miss So-and-So." I see them in church now, former
students. They thank you for what you did for them. If a kid didn't do,
especially a girl, I'd call their parents, and the parents appreciated
it. I couldn't see any difference. The white parents were just as
appreciative as black. Black parents are just as appreciative knowing
about their kids as all parents. They were the same way. I remember that
Billy Branner. He had a lot in common. I was determined that he was
going to be a Morehead Scholar. I wanted to make sure that he was able
to talk to that male white between thirty and forty years old. I called
Dr.
[unclear] at Central Piedmont, and I called Judge Spencer Tenews and Jim
Babb out at WBTV. I said, "Jim, I've got a student
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Dr. Durant. I'd call them and tell them to take those kids out. You take
a young white student, they've talked to their daddy and maybe one or
two friends, but they need to talk to some intellectuals. Dr.
[unclear] at Central Piedmont, I'd call him. That's the reason I had
Morehead Scholars. I wanted to give those students that exposure. You
take a little black kid, you throw him to the wolves. He hasn't talked.
And the white kid, there's no difference between them. There's certain
experiences that they need. I think it's up to you as an educator to
provide those experiences for them, and not the parents. I've always
been a conservative person. I was there at East and even at West
Charlotte. Back then in the late '60s and early '70s, that when you had
all these so-called freaks where anything goes. They'd wear shorts, and
they'd have jeans. They'd cut them off and have them frayed. Then they'd
have patches in the wrong places, and all that stuff. I got a group of
students together. I started off with the seniors. I said, "You're
seniors in high school. I truly believe that once you get to be a senior
there should be certain privileges for you." And they agreed. I said, "I
need your help in securing these privileges." So they would list the
things, and those things that they listed I agreed with. But I said, "I
can't do it by myself." I left and I went to the juniors. I said,
"You're juniors this year, but next year you're going to be a senior.
This is what the seniors think that they should have." I did the same
thing for the sophomores. They would ask questions, but they would end
up agreeing. For ten years at East Mecklenburg, at least the last nine
years I was there, the only people that could wear shorts would be
seniors. It was a senior privilege. It was something that the students
agreed on. It had to be announced a week in advance that the seniors
would be wearing shorts on such-and-such a date. They would wear those
shorts. I had one or two parents
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know why. I said, "No, I don't let them wear shorts. This is why, and
I'd show them." Because you would have some of them that would take
things to the extreme. I didn't believe in that. We had personal issues
and driver's ed. I would always pick out those kids that would turn
sixteen in September and October, and I'd start them off in driver's ed,
personal issues. They'd be in personal issues and driver's ed for nine
weeks, and the tenth week they'd have their drivers license. The
eleventh week they'd have a car and one or two of them were dead. So I
went to Jim Babb, Stewart Spenser, the PTSA board. I told them, I said,
"Listen, every thirteen or fourteen days after the first nine weeks of
school I am losing a student. It's always a white male. Now and then
it's a white female. Sophomores don't have any business driving." With
the help of them plus the PTSA board I presented it to them, I said,
"Every thirteen or fourteen days I take Miss Ledford and we go to a
funeral. Ninety-nine times out of a hundred it's a white one. We don't
go to two black funerals a year for accidents." So we came up with a
policy there at East Mecklenburg. We didn't allow sophomores to drive
cars, period. The only time they could drive was if it was an emergency.
They had to bring a statement from home or their doctor, and it had to
be checked on by Nick Miller. He was a lawyer out of Matthews. That's
the only way they could drive. And old Fountain Odum, he's a state
senator now. He had kids out at Olympic. He and Jim started something
out there. He said something to me. I said, "Listen, my first loyalty is
to the students and the parents of East Mecklenburg. What you do or what
you don't do at Olympic doesn't matter to me, but at East Mecklenburg I
don't want any kids that's just turned sixteen to drive anything to
school, period because they're getting killed." I had a little boy that
came to me one Friday afternoon and that Saturday morning Jim
Whittington called me and said, "Pop,
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a kid." When I went over to the funeral home the man was back there, he
had his head. His head had been severed from his body. He had his head
under one of them little sprinklers cleaning the blood and the stuff out
of it. I had to go tell his parents. I remember the night we presented
it to PTSA. They accepted it. If you're worth your salt you're going to
get to know your students. I said, "I get to know them" He came to me
that Friday afternoon, and he said, "Pop, I'm not going to ever give you
any more trouble. You're a nice person." That next day I'm identifying
his body. It's things like that. I can fool you, but you can't fool a
kid. Kids, white or black, they know whether or not you're sincere. They
look straight through you when they find out you're not. I said, "No,
you can't do that. I don't want you to do that. It's not healthy."