Some gay men try to downplay their sexuality
Herzenberg describes conservatism among certain gay men. These men are gay, but uncomfortable with the more vocal members of their community, and used to discrimination, keep their sexual identity muted. This impulse, Herzenberg believes, is a response to homophobia.
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Oral History Interview with Joseph A. Herzenberg, November 1, 2000. Interview K-0196. Southern Oral History Program Collection (#4007) in the Southern Oral History Program Collection, Southern Historical Collection, Wilson Library, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.
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Did you ever know a lot about—traditionally in
closeted societies and even today, a lot of the gay male population is
[pause] well not a lot now, but there is definitely
a component, are married. They are posing that would probably be a good
way to put it. Did you see a lot of that? And do you still see that?
- JOSEPH A. HERZENBERG:
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No, I think that I effectively cut myself off from that by being too
out, so those people were reluctant to—
- CHRIS MCGINNIS:
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Associate
- JOSEPH A. HERZENBERG:
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Yes, I don't. I am trying to think of anybody. I am sure that
if I thought about it I could come up with a few names of people who
were in that category, but. And you know, there always were people who
were relatively conservative, I don't mean in terms of
supporting Ronald Reagan conservative, I mean, they were personally more
conservative and their style was more conservative. I remember once
going to a small supper party at a gay faculty member's
house, a student had asked me to come with him to that party and the
reason was that there was a conservative gay man there, at this party
who was a scientist, I forget—a biologist I think of some
kind, who has been dead—who died not too long after this
supper—who he wanted gay organizations to take gay out of
their names. I think what he was working on was the gay and lesbian
health project in Durham. He wanted them to—and he said that
he could get them a lot more money for their work if, if they called
themselves something else. And I said, 'Well, that may be,
but they are not going to change their name, it is a waste of time to
bother them.'
- CHRIS MCGINNIS:
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Right.
- JOSEPH A. HERZENBERG:
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I mean, the whole point of that organization is to have that name.
- CHRIS MCGINNIS:
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Right.
- JOSEPH A. HERZENBERG:
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He didn't really appreciate that, I think. So—
- CHRIS MCGINNIS:
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He didn't happen to be married or anything like that, did he?
- JOSEPH A. HERZENBERG:
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No, I just mentioned that as another, another—and
conservative is not quite the right word, just a more closeted approach
to things.
- CHRIS MCGINNIS:
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Yeah, there was definitely a trend in gay history—
- JOSEPH A. HERZENBERG:
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Oh sure.
- CHRIS MCGINNIS:
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Especially, you know, when you are experiencing something like
McCarthyism or something.
- JOSEPH A. HERZENBERG:
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Yes, of course.
- CHRIS MCGINNIS:
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You want to be mainstream—
- JOSEPH A. HERZENBERG:
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Yes, and there was good reason for it. No, I wouldn't
criticize those people necessarily. I just think that just as we have to
try to understand why they were that way, it's important to
point out that they didn't understand what other people were
in another way. That is, this guy just could not understand why the Gay
and Lesbian Health Project wouldn't want to change its name.
[Laughter]
It made no sense to him. Because all he could think
about was helping them in their work by getting them more money, by
getting them grants, you know.
- CHRIS MCGINNIS:
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And he thought that if they said homosexual or—
- JOSEPH A. HERZENBERG:
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No, I don't think that he wanted that either.
- CHRIS MCGINNIS:
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He didn't want anything.
- JOSEPH A. HERZENBERG:
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No, maybe alternative health project, or something, I don't
know what he wanted to call it. But, I knew those people in Durham, they
were not going to change that for anything.
- CHRIS MCGINNIS:
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Right.
- JOSEPH A. HERZENBERG:
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The whole point of that organization was to be out there.
- CHRIS MCGINNIS:
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So people who were gay and lesbian could get there.
- JOSEPH A. HERZENBERG:
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That's right. It does strike me that even today, in the year
2000, there are remarkably few UNC faculty who are out.