Okay, when he left Cary he went to Trinity Park, which is now Duke
University. And he had a sister who had a drug store in Durham. I think
she was very influential in him going to pharmacy school in
Massachusetts. Then he came back and opened up a drug store in Cary. And
I think his love was always Cary. Nobody ever loved Cary more than he
did. And I think his passion were girls and boys and education and
athletics. I've never known anybody to work longer and harder
at an avocation than he did to try to get things for Cary and get things
for the Cary schools. So at an early age, as a kid, I remember him just
night after night being involved with the local politics and the Cary
Advisory Board. It seemed like he served forever on that. And he just
wanted to make sure that Cary was the best school in Wake County and
they had what they should have. I heard a lot of people over a lot of
years talk about that they had never seen anybody fight for their school
like he did. There was a lady from Garner, Mary Gentry, who was on the
school board at the same time, and I remember her remarking that if
everybody had the passion for their community that Henry Adams had, Wake
County would be the finest school system in the country. But I
don't know that he had all the advantages when he was coming
along. And he wanted every boy and girl in Cary to have better
opportunities and more advantages and a better school system. And so he
worked hard for it. And I think he felt like that
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when he had done what he needed to do for Cary, it was time to try at a
different level. And they had encouraged him for years to run for the
Wake County Board of Education, which he had always pushed them off and
said, my love is Cary and I want Cary to get these things. I think
somebody told him, they said if you'll get on the Wake County
board, Cary can get even more. So he ran and he was elected pretty much
by a landslide. He was well respected all over the county and he was a
businessman, everybody knew him. And I can't remember how
many terms he was on the Wake County Board. But I was in Delaware and he
had just won another election. And then I came back to Cary to coach,
and he was still on the Wake County Board. And then when I came into
this job, he died getting ready to run for another term. And I think
about all the things that people tell me while I was gone that he did,
and I'm really proud of what he did.
But I guess the
thing I'm most proud of was that he was so ahead of his time
in civil rights and being concerned about separate but quote, so called
equal, but not equal schools. He was on the Board of Education both at
the local level and saw the Black schools and the White schools, and he
knew we had the have-nots and the have's. Then at the Wake
County level, he saw it even worse than that. And I think all the things
of those days bothered him greatly. I heard him in conversations with my
Mom, talking about, you know, it just was not fair. And I think one of
his goals was to do everything he could to try to create a more
equitable situation. And one of them was to start the integration
process and get the Black kids going to Cary. And that was not a popular
thing back in those days. There weren't many people who
believed that Blacks were equal or that Blacks should have equal
opportunity. And I can remember hearing phone calls and hearing my
Dad's response and realized somebody on the other end was
really unhappy about him pushing to integrate the schools. And I read
articles and I heard people talking. In fact, one of my best friends who
grew up and lived a lot at my house, and thought my Mom and Dad were
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of his position on wanting to give the Black children the same
opportunities that White children had. And later that person has come
back to me and said, I was dead wrong. He said your Dad was right and I
was wrong. And he said it upset me so badly that I quit going to see him
and wouldn't have anything to do with him. And I said, he had
a lot of that, but I said, it never bothered him because he was focused
and he thought he was right and think he, deep down, knew he was right.
And he was willing to take the flack that came from basically a White
community during the days of segregation because he felt so strongly
that it was wrong. And I guess that's one of the things
I'm most proud of him for because he had tremendous vision.
He was a very wise man who looked down that road which most of us are
not capable of doing and said, this is wrong and we need to do something
about it. And he did. And I happened to have been in Cary coaching and I
remember the Principal, Paul Cooper, coming to me one day and saying,
your Dad wants to integrate Wake County and he feels like in order to
integrate Wake County he's got to do it at his own school
first. And he said, I'm totally supportive of him and he
said, we'd like to put the first Black kid in your class. I
said, great. I said I have no problem with that. So I had the first
Black child, who was an Evans girl, back in the early
'60's, and we had no problem whatsoever. And
things went well. And the rest is history.