No, not for me and I don't say this with any conceit either
because you see through good fortune, the first job I had was at the
State Training School for Boys and there were boys there who were
committed for all types of crimes and misdemeanors. Sometimes,
unfortunately, even homicide during that time. I went there from college
in 1935, and I stayed there until 1939. They had a system there--they
had a boy's supervisor who also was referred to a
disciplinarian and we had a part-time social worker and we had seven
staff people in the academic division. I went there as teaching
principal of the academic division. So I was responsible for the
discipline within the academic school. I had a few serious discipline
problems with some boys, no girls involved, but I maybe had pretty good
luck because I was challenged a couple of times but I never was over
ridden. So when I came here as principal of the high school from
Morrison Training School, I was challenged by about four students over
the first two or three years that I was here and they
couldn't prevail but I always felt this way. I would tell
anybody, you know we are here for a purpose and I have told more than
once. I said, "I am here because I was employed to do a
job," and I said, "The state provides the school and
the school is here for you to learn and they provide me to help you in
every way that I can. I will help you if you will let me help
you." I would say, "You are not going to run the
school and I will tell you why. I came to stay and no one person is
going to cause me to leave. If you are going to run it or if you are
going to have your way, right over there on that rack is my hat, the day
that that happens I am getting my hat and I am going but you are not
going to run this school." I said, "Now you know you
can stay if you want to but you don't have to. You know when
you get to be sixteen you don't have to stay but what you
will have to do is you will have to change and your parents will have to
come and they will have to be a part of the conference and whatever
counseling they can give you here or there will be fine with
me." I said, "Now there are 600 students here and I am
responsible for all of them and you are not going to mess it up for
me." They got the message.
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the secondary school ever stayed there a month without having some
discipline problems but I never had a bat, a bull horn, and I was always
a little leery of using a strap. I never used a strap, not with high
school students. I think this was a mistake but it was probably the
custom at the time. Elementary teachers sometimes have switches and
sometimes the men had these little belts that they would use on the
boys. As I look back that was not good practice because I never thought
that that was very effective but it was the custom and I still
don't believe that that is the best approach to discipline.
So I had it pretty easy from the standpoint of discipline but I
don't think it was by chance. I just did not intend--you see
I had to work because I had a family coming on and I couldn't
stay there. I couldn't keep a straight face. You know a guy
tells me that he is not going to do what I ask him to do and his reason
and I said, if you don't there is no way both of us can stay
and I wouldn't raise my voice. I had a problem with a teacher
once and this is digression just a little bit. It was an exceptional
thing as long as we are on discipline--it was a young teacher and I
believe this was her first job. I wasn't so old that I
couldn't appreciate youth. The CIAA Convention was being held
in Greensboro and my youngest son was in high school at the time and I
can't remember all the details but this person stated that
she had to go to see a doctor or something like that. The person was a
counselor. I said, all right. When the reports came in, there were some
three or four guys who were not in class in the afternoon. So then we
began to inquire around and to make a long story short, this person had
taken an automobile and taken some boys to Greensboro to see the CIAA
and they got back at night sometime. You know they start during the day
you know so it wasn't difficult to get all the facts so when
I called the person in, I said, "That was a very irresponsible
act on your part. Now you can't do this even if you
weren't in the role that you are in, as a young adult and
working with young people you can't do that and expect to
have that much influence." I said, "I can't
recommend you for reappointment" and of course, there had been
one or two other instances before but anyway I said, "We will
have a conference with the superintendent and these are the facts and if
there is anything different from this, let's you and I
establish those now so when we have the conference there
won't be any misunderstanding or misrepresentation. On one
occasion it was either that time or when something else was an issue the
superintendent would say, "Now Ms. So and So, Mr. Mask is
principal of this school and he has been here a long time and he was
here before I got here." This was the new superintendent who
had just been here two or three years, and I have a lot of respect for
him and a whole lot of other people do too. "He is put here to
run the school and I am working with him. It can't be run by
you and by him and I think he is going to run it."