And Howard University. So, by being social workers and sharing with
us—we even socialized together, my parents and our
generation. I have three siblings. As a result, I think it gave us a
step up in understanding society in general, people in general. It was a
very interesting life, because we moved from community to community. By
my father being a minister, you were welcomed in the community, you
didn't have to forge your way through. At the same time, you
met so many diverse people. The church in Oakland and Berkeley that my
father had was integrated way back in the '30s and
'40s. It had a small minority of other races, but they were
there. There was an on-going exchange of rabbis and ministers within the
ministerial alliances in Oregon, California, and Colorado. So we were
really exposed to lots of different types of people. My older sister
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know, the international house there had a reputation of being quite an
active, interesting and diverse community. My mother and father used to
welcome young people to our home, because they wanted us to know people
from all over they world, and they wanted them to be exposed to families
in the area. We lived in Berkeley, right near the campus. So that armed
me, so to speak, with a feeling that there are other venues, other
aspects to life besides that that I had lived. When I came here [to
Weldon], at first I had the feeling that there would be a very strong,
almost militant group of people that were ready for anything that might
come on the horizon. The military had been integrated, and I said, well,
things might begin to fall after that. This was in my mind. So coming
here, I had that feeling, not realizing that there had been generations
of that slave mentality that was still here. I came to understand that
the security people needed to go from one day to the next was in that
slave mentality. That was a rude awakening for me. I didn't
think that that would be the situation when I first came here. I
remember that the older physician that was
here—we'd met him before, his name was Dr.
Tinsley— approached us one time, and said that he
didn't believe that there was much hope. I think that he had
just given up on the prospect of our races ever getting together, or
people having understanding. So he was sort of negative in his whole
aspect. I told him, I remember quite clearly, that if we could help just
one person, maybe that would be progress. And he looked at me like I was
sort of crazy. I guess he thought, here's this young kid that
doesn't know what she's talking about. But still,
I sort of hung on to that, because, I guess, my family had been so
positive, and had instilled in me a positivity that I felt quite
strongly about. But little by little, it was revealed to me that it
would take a lot to overcome what had preceded us generations back. In
the churches, which were the foundation of the black communities, there
was a resignation about ever bursting out, ever becoming a part of the
community in general. I remember quite a few experiences. One of them
had to do with the fact that the minister of the church that my
husband's family belonged to was in graduate school at
Harvard University with one of my father's brothers. I was
enthused about meeting him, and thought, "Oh, boy, this is
really going to be something, because I'm sure that this man
is going to be a very progressive man." And the very first time
I went to see him, and went up to meet him at church, I said,
"I have some exciting news. My father's brother and
you were at Harvard together in the master's program. He
said, "Oh, yes, what was his name?" I said,
"Richard Hill." And he said, "Oh, I knew him,
I knew him." I said, "Great. Since you've
been in this community, what have you been doing to help with the
leadership and so on?" And he told me, "I'm
giving the people what they want." I almost fainted right there
in the church! I couldn't believe—because when I
heard him speak, it was so lacking in any perspective, any inspiration,
it was so lacking in giving people the wherewithal to fight the battle.
I just couldn't believe it, and that's why I was
pressed to go to him and ask him what this had done to equip him for
helping these people in his
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desperately needed it? When he said he was giving them what they wanted,
I felt like my heart just went absolutely to the floor!