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Citation of this interview should be as follows:
“Interview
R-0128, in the Southern Oral History Program Collection #4007,
Southern
Historical Collection, The Wilson Library,
University of North Carolina
at Chapel Hill”
Geraldine Ray is a lifelong resident of Barnardsville, North Carolina, a small town near Asheville. Ray describes her childhood and young adulthood caring for her disabled grandmother, working on the family farm, and attending all-black segregated schools. She recalls racial segregation as relatively easy to avoid compared to the segregation and prejudice that her black neighbors practiced based on skin tone. She devoted most of her time to school work, raising livestock, cooking, and helping to plant tobacco. She learned these skills from her grandmother because her parents left the state while Geraldine was young. Geraldine briefly lived with her father in Cincinnati before returning to Barnardsville to care for her grandmother. She sacrificed her love of education and desire for a career to nurse her relatives and friends through several illnesses, though she also endured health problems. The interview ends with discussions about her marriage to childhood friend J.T. Ray, her two miscarriages, and raising her two children.
Geraldine Ray has lived in Barnardsville, North Carolina, nearly her entire life. In this interview, she describes growing up on her family's farm, attending all-black schools, and caring for sick relatives and friends. She describes racial segregation as a problem that seemed less difficult to avoid than segregation and prejudice between local black residents. Geraldine learned several essential skills of farm life from her grandmother and then used them to support the family through illness. The interview concludes with a description of her husband—a childhood friend—and how they chose to raise their children.
[START OF TAPE 1, SIDE A]
Today is September 13, 1997. My name is Kelly Elaine Navies and I'm going to interview by second cousin Mrs. Geraldine Ray. We are in Weaverville, North Carolina in the livingroom of her home and will you identify yourself?
I am Geraldine Ray.
Today we are going to begin the first of a series of interviews with the purpose of constructing a life review. For the first part of this interview, I'd like to focus on the early part of your life. So, I'd like to ask you once again to state your full name.
Geraldine C. Ray. The C stands for Coon. My father was Howard Coon. He married Odessa Whiteside.
That's C-O-O-N?
What is your birthdate?
7-10-37
Where were you born?
I was born in Weaverville, North Carolina, across from where I presently live.
Right across the street?
Right across the street.
In fact you were showing me that earlier -there is a community center.
Correct, which used to be the schoolhouse. It was the first— Well, really it wasn't the first—It was the second colored school at that time-that was in the Weaverville area. You also had schools in Barnardsville, North Carolina where I was raised up. You also had one at Flat Creek and you also had one at Alexander, which is all in a little area just like-uh . . . three or four miles into each little town. And as I said, I was born here in Weaverville, was raised up in Barnardsville and I went to school here in Weaverville.
So, when you were born there, that was a schoolhouse?
That was a school, but it wasn't at the present site. It was down the hill-say fifty to a hundred feet further down the hill than where it is now.
So you all lived right there?
No.
So, how were you born there?
There was a house at the back of the center—off a' Reems Creek Road—The present site is still there—It's dug out and we used to play in it when I was in Grade School. There are still some scrub and stuff there that was from the present house.
So this house was—I'm trying to understand-was it a house where women came to give birth or—.
No, it was just a residence. That was where my grandparents lived. Where Will and Annie Whiteside lived.
I see, that was where—.
That was where my mother was and that was where they were living. It was also called the Pres-Flack home. I don't know whether he was the one that built it but he was the one that lived there before they[ her maternal grandparents] lived there and as far as I know they were the last people to live in that house. But, the house was not torn down - I would say up until the last of the forties or early fifties.
So, while we're on that subject-What is the full name of your grandparents and your parents?
My parents are Howard G. Coon, which was Grover, mother was—I can't remember her first name but Odessa is what she always went by but she does have—I can't remember the first part of it, which she didn't know until here—when she started to get her social security and I went to the — to the courthouse to get her birth certificate and it didn't have Odessa on it and we had to trace it back from Will and Annie Whiteside. Annie was a Stevens and she was born and raised up in Leicester, North Carolina, which is about forty miles from Weaverville.
Hmm— So, Annie Stevens, your grandmother was raised in Leicester and William Whiteside—
Was born in Rutherfordton County.
And where exactly is that?
Rutherfordton is between Forest City and uh—. Well on one side-Hendersonville, I guess you would say-anyhow, it's offa'—. is it highway 70-anyway it's between Asheville and Charlotte. It's down that way. And you've heard of Chimney Rock?
Mmmhmm.
Well, it's a little town outside of Chimney Rock—not too far from Chimney Rock.
Okay, a little later I wanna get back to that and find out a little bit more about them. So, you born across the street. How long did you live over there?
I really don't know. It couldn't a' been too long, because my father had built a house in Barnardsville and that's where he took us to. I imagine maybe two weeks, maybe. I don't know.
In Barnardsville?
No, in Weaverville. I lived in this house maybe two weeks or more.
And then you moved to Barnardsville?
Right.
Is Barnardsville in Buncombe County?
Yes.
It is? Okay. How long did you live there?
'Til I was twenty-three years old.
Okay, so we'll start with Barnardsville . . .
But, in between when I came out of high school I went to Cincinatti and stayed up there almost a year.
Really? How old were you then?
I was seven—sixteen. I came out of school at fifteen. I graduated from high school at fifteen.
At fifteen?
I came out in June and I turned sixteen in July.
You must a been pretty smart.
Lucky maybe.
So—let's back up. You're living in Barnardsville —umm— how old were you when you started attending school?
Seven. Six and a half or seven.
And what was the name of that school?
Weaverville Colored School.
So this was a segregated school?
Yeah, it was the same school that we were talking about in the beginning. I went there from the first through the eighth grade. And I graduated eighth grade here in Weaverville. I rode a bus, I walked I would say three-quarters of a mile every mornin to catch the bus. I had to get up and be on the road by and be waitting on the side of the highway at 7 o'clock to catch the bus.
From Barnardsville?
From Barnardsville. And so after I graduated from here, I still had to walk to catch the bus and come to —and then the little towns that we came through going and coming to school was Flat Creek, Democrat, Dooley Springs, Alexander, Weaverville and then when I got in High School we went from here to when they desegregated—But, I came out two years before they desegregated and I went to Stephen Lee High School.
Can you describe Weaverville Colored School?
It's a two room building. It had a cloak room with a partition to cut off the two classes. We had two teachers and one of em was my cousin . . .
Really, what was her name?
Monny Flat Jones. She was the principal. She taught me the last four grades. The first four was Amanda Horn. In which, we lived—my mother in law bought her place in which we are presently living here now. She lived here, on this spot, only closer to the highway up there and uh she left when I was in the eighth grade and went to Philadelphia, because her husband had passed and her daughter lived in Philadelphia so she went up there to stay with them and we had one more teacher at that time which was Miss Margarite Dixon. Marguerite Dixon uhh—. Macarath.
So, these segregated schools—Well, I'm asking about yours specifically, all of your teachers were black?
Yes
To your knowledge were all of the teachers in the segregated school black?
Yes, to my knowledge
So, what kind of memories do you have of this school? Did you get a good education there?
Well, when you left there and went to high school—. 'cause back then—they did the best they knew how. You had a good basic in reading, arithmetic, and writing. Now as far as some of the other subjects—. We had never heard tell of until we went back, 'til we started high school and when we got in high school —I'ts just like starting over in school again, because we hadn't had that.
Like history?
Yeah, and all this stuff. See you had some history—but you
had geography at that time. And uhh— see when we got in high
school you had extra curriculum, you had home ec, you had science, you
had algebra, you had core and all this which we hadn't heard of
So, did you feel like you had to catch up when you got to high school?
Well, as I said in reading, writing, and arithmetic and spellin I always made good marks in spellin—I always made a hundred on that. So, I made a fair—good report, because I enjoyed going to school.
So, you didn't have much of a problem adjusting?
No, I didn't have a whole lot of problems adjusting. The main thing adjusting was being throwed in with all of these black folks-because see I was mainly brought up around with the whites. And that was kind of strange to me.
So, the high school was also segregated at that time?
Yes
So, when you say you were brougt up around whites, you mean in Barnardsville?
And out here too.
[announces that there was a telephone interruption and that the
interview will continue with a discussion of Geraldine's
experience growing up around whites, while attending segregated
schools].
(Geraldine continues)
What do you mean by that?
What I mean by that— I was considered— Well, at that time they kept saying, "Well, you think you pretty". I was among the ones with long hair, light [skin] and a lot em was jealous— and they treated me as so. So, I had more segregation among them then I did the whites and I got a lot of that when I first went to high school until I got to the point where I ignored it. And then they learnt me for myself and then I got along fine. But, I never—really as far as—. I've had some to call me nigger, but that didn't bug me because some of them were darker than I was.
Some of the white people?
Some of the whites and some of them had black ancestors even down to their grandmother and some of em was much darker than I was—
And you knew that then?
I knew that then. Which when I said, "Well, you just as black as I am" I never had that no more. So, they kind of looked out for me, 'cause I was there usually one by myself. There was another family there that had actually ended up having sixteen children, but they lived a mile from me. I saw them when we were going to school but during the summer and the weekends when we was home I hardly ever seen em. So, I was more or less with my cousin, which was L.D., my uncle's son, he and I was there together, but he was four or five years older than I was. So, I was a little girl and he was a little boy. Back then they didn't let you run around with little boys and play.
So, who did you play with?
I played with little white kids.
And you didn't have any problems?
I didn't have no problems. I can still go home and have no problems. I
was out there, in fact, yesterday.
In Barnardsville?
Mmhmm. I didn't have no problems.
So, you were saying some of em called you nigger-when was the first time that someone called you a nigger?
Oh, it was a guy that lived below me I think he was the first-I was coming home from school one day and he hollered out "hey there little nigger".
Was it like he was bein' friendly?
No, he was bein smart. And I said, "well,you black as I am." Which I happened to know that his father was whi . . . black too. He was actually dark as I was or darker, really.
He didn't know it?
Yeah, he knew it.
He was actually passing as white?
He was just being smart. Well, his mother was white and his daddy-so far was white-you know, that's the way he was.
So, he was living as a white person?
Yeah, he wasn't livin like no black person. but, uh—. Then it
was some little girls that used to live next door to me then one of em
got mad at me one day 'cause I run em off from the house. I was lookin
after em and told em to quit doin' something, and one of called me
nigra, "Ya nigra". She couldn't talk good and so uh I
told her, "Since I'm that you stay home. You don't come back up
here" So, I made her stay home for over a week and she came
back and she begged me could she come back and I said if you can
Are what, now?
Bears.
Bears?
Yes, "Mama is that a bear?". J. T. and had that happen to us one day in the store, grocery store. Little baby, just big enough to talk, "Mama, that's a bear." They ignorant. It's very ignorant, so, as I said I got along fine.
Who were you living with at that time?
I was living with my grandparents. My father's mother and father, which he died in '48, in 1948.
Oh, he died when you were very young.
Yeah, I had just turned 11 years old. I turned 11 on the tenth and he died on the twelfth.
So, what did granddaddy Whiteside and grandmother Whiteside have to say about race relations? Did they tell you things about that at all?
Well, he was—See, his daddy was white. Granddaddy Whiteside's daddy was white. So, there's really nothing he ever said because he ran with em too. So, I've never heard them speak one way or the other about it.
So, what was his father's name?
Who?
Granddaddy Whiteside
His name was William—he was named after him, and they called him "Doc". Believe it was ‘Doc’ they called him.
So, his first name was William Whiteside, but they called him Doc?
Yes, that's what I was told. William Marion, I think was his name.
Yeah, you've told me about him before, I just wanted to get it down.
Mmhmm—William Marion, but they called him Doc.
So, I'm curious about-what about the teachers in the colored school, did they ever talk about why the schools were segregated or anything like that?
No, that's something . . . I mean you knew it was segregated, you knew you was going to your school, you knew if you walked up the street you didn't drink from the water fountain, you . . . well, as I again, there again, I had more segregation away from home than I did at home where I was surrounded. But, they never really said a whole lot in the schools at that particular time about it.
What did you think about the fact that water fountains, as you say and things like that were segregated, did it bother you?
It didn't bother me 'cause I never drank out of em noway. So, I just—well, you know it's some things you did and some things you didn't do and that was one thing. Well, they had—city water was out here. We had well water. Well water was so much better than city water and it was more pure, so I hardly ever drank any water away from home.
Is this still well water out here?
No, this is city water.
How about inside the downtown areas of Weaverville and Asheville, were they segregated too?
Yes, they was segregated and you still have a bunch here that would be segregated if they could get by with it. But, there are so few of us they don't pay us any attention. But, now since integration has started, you've got a lot of blacks that's living around here, but they don't 'sociate with the blacks that was already here.
Because, they're movin in . . .
They movin in. You see em they pass and repass and some of em hardly ever speak to you. So, we not bothered with that. You knew who was segregated and you had a certain class of the blacks that didn't want you to come in their front door. You was segregated by them. And so, that's just the way it was. See, a lot of em had a lotta white in em, so there really wasn't a whole lot they could say, you see.
A lot of the . . .
The blacks was mixed in with the whites.
But, they still weren't allowed to go certain places?
They wasn't allowed to go certain places.
So, if you went shopping in Asheville, for example . . .
You went-You knew where you was welcome, you knew where you weren't. So, you had a tendency to go where you knew you could go and not be bothered. Like we had-what we used to call ‘the block’ which was Eagle street and Market street, which is still there.
The streets are still there?
Yeah.
Are they still predominantly black?
Yes, and they call em ‘the block’ but it's mixtry
now [I believe this means it's a mixed street now]
It's mixed now?
Yes, I mean you see white down there now as well as you do blacks. Those were the places- and South side, you had South side which was predominantly black, you had Hill street which was predominantly black, Mountain street and all of those little far away places-Shiloh where granddaddy and them used to live at one time.
Shiloh?
Uhhuh.
Was that in Asheville?
That's in North Asheville-No, not North Asheville, South Asheville.
Did you ever think that race relations would change the way that they have around here?
No, not really. Because, as you have-as I said as the older generation dies out you don't have as much of it, but you have it from the people movin in. Now, the younger ones that has grown up since I—my kids have grown up they don't have the malice like some of their—their foreparents. And you had some of them foreparents-everything was supposed to stay the same and that's what they wanted. You were black you go in the back door, you ride in the back seat. That's the way it was and see when you grow up with that, you don't think nothing about it. I mean that's just an everyday life thing, you just go on and do.
It didn't make you mad at all?
Naw, what's the use in gettin' mad. It didn't help you none.
So, were you surprised when that part of segregation—when it was made illegal?
Yeah, Mmhmm
You were surprised?
Yeah, I was surprised. [Brief pause, her oven alarm goes off, she is baking a cake]
[When we return I leave race relations and go back to exploring
her school experiences]
Oh, yeah—Ring around the rosies, Little Sally Walker, uh . . . hide and seek, well we jumped rope, we played baseball with a tennis ball and in fact one time I got knocked down with a baseball bat. Knocked cold.
Really?
Uhhunh—.Daniel, Kyle and Wi . . . ? was playin and he
went—I was hindcatching and he rared back and moved and hit
me cross (I can't make out this part)
all day long? —
Yeah, but that was slipped around and that was done anyway, but she tried to stop it—which we didn't hear of that anywhere else. That was just some of her own rules.
Which one of those games was your favorite?
I always loved to play ball. And I have a rock in my knee from jumpin rope, now.
Really? A rock in your knee? How did that happen?
Well, they used to put rocks—We didn't have no grass, we had cinders where you'd bring—see we had potbellied stove in the school and the potbellied stove—well, J.T. for one, which is now my present husband, used to go down there and start them early in the morning before we got to school or Robert Cown or Nathaniel Brooks and when the cinders—they used coal— and when the cinders burn down to where they wasn't gonna burn, they'd take the cinders and spread em on the ground and every so often they would brings cinders from other places to keep the ground from being muddy. So, we was out jumpin rope to see how high we could jump and my foot caught and I went down on my knee and I still got the scar and I got a little black place on my knee where the cinder went in it.
You weren't able to get that out at the doctor?
One little spot still there.
Did you go to the doctor?
Oh, yeah. Well, see back then they sent you to the Health Department where we had a Health Nurse. It wasn't so much a health department, it was a Health Nurse that went around and she was located up here in the town hall in Weaverville. And you would go up there and they'd dress your knee, give you your shots you had to have for school and all that. So, that's how that was done.
So, that's where you went?
Mmhhm—.then most of the time if you got hurt at home you could wash it out with kerosene oil or alcohol or something and put a rag on it and you'd go on.
Kerosene oil?
Yeah. If you stuck your foot on a nail—they would—You'd go pour some kerosene oil down in your foot and that would stop the infection and you would heal.
Oh. I did that once—stepped on a rusty nail. It went all the way through my foot.
I've had that done twice. (laughs)
Why is that?
Well they fed you herbs. They'd give you herbs for colds, castor oil for colds, cod liver oil to keep you from havin a cold, but mainly when you got sick they'd bet on castor oil or Boneset tea or Life Everlastin. You could smoke the Life Everlastin, which the common name was Rabbit Tobacco. And they'd make all this stuff, well they had certain things when they thought you had worms, they'd give you uhhh—what was it, scullcap—.no, it wasn't scullcap. But, you had a herb that was scullcap, I've forgotten now what the used that for. You had, I can't remember now the name of the one that they used for worms.
Was it Pennyroyal? You told me that once.
Yeah, that was what it was. And see they went [every fall?] and dug roots. You had rattlesnake root, you had Black Cohosh, Blue Cohosh, Boneset, Rattlesnake root (again), Wintergreen, and they kept all these little herbs.
Now, when you say they, who are you referring to?
My grandparents. And that's what they uh . . . Well, to make me sleep they'd give me Catnip tea. There's an herb named Catnip, they'd make catnip tea and you'd go to sleep.
Grandma Whiteside would do this?
Grandma Coon also. Both grandparents would do that. See, I never really stayed with grandma Whiteside much. I was just in and out of their house.
Oh, so you were talking about your father's grandparents (parents).
Right. I was raised by them.
I was confused there. Did you grandfather ever do that or was it mostly your grandmother?
Both of em. 'Cause, he was a logger and he would go in the mountains a log and if he found things like that he would bring it home.
Would he administer it to you if you were sick?
Well, he'd bring it to her and she'd know what to do. But, he was a spoiler. I was his pet. I could sit in his lap and do anything.
What was his full name?—What were both of their names?
His name was Chester Lomas Coon.
And was your grandmothers name?
Geneva Estella. She was a Flack.
So, you stayed with them until you graduated from High School?
Until I graduated from High School. Then in the meantime, daddy was
remarried when I was in the ninth grade. He married a West Indian lady
by the name of Ruby. Ruby, Ruby—. I can't remember what her
last name was. He lived in New York for a while, but he always sent
money home for me, ten dollars a week. That's how I went to school on
ten dollars a week. And I had—which was a lot of money back
then—when I was in elementary school I carried my lunch, but
when we was in high school we did have a
You didn't have to pay for books, did you?
Yeah, we had to pay for em if we tore em or anything like that. But, other than that they'd just issue em to us and we turned em back in at the end of the year. And see the next class that come in would use em. So, you didn't buy books persay then. In fact, they was hand me downs, very seldom would you get a new book. Every now and then you would get a new book.
I'm confused when you said that someone died in 1948, that was.
Granddaddy Coon.
Oh, granddaddy Coon. He died in 1948 and then you just lived with your grandmother?
Right, she and I stayed there together. She got down sick when I was in high school. She had Rheumatoid Arthiritis and a year-I come out of school in June, I went to Ohio in December of that year and uh we took her with us at that time she could still get around. But then, my Uncle's wife died so she came back to the funeral and she stayed. So, that following July I had to come back and stay because she had gotten to the point to where she couldn't do anything. She was on crutches, then from crutches to the wheel chair, from the wheelchair to the hospital bed, and looked after her for the next twelve years.
Oh, really.
Uh huh. So, I stayed with her and so I worked on the farm from the time I was five years old. I went out I helped set tobacco, I carried water, I learnt to milk, I learned to feed the cows, the horses, pigs, whatever had to be done. And she stood me in a chair at the age of five and learnt me how to cook cornbread and stuff. I was short, she stand me in a chair and show me how to do things, that's where I learned to cook. I never cooked from a box until now, really if I'm tired or something if I got somethin in a box, but I always cook from scratch, because that's the way I learnt. And back then, she would make my dresses out of feed sacks, because when you buy the cowfeed, and the horse feed, they had pretty sacks which made beautiful dresses.
Really?
Yep. And then you had flower sacks which was made . . . You could get a flower sack that was a head scarf. And the way you'd (unintelligible ?) it out you'd have a pretty scarf or you could have a pillow case. Then you started gettin washin (unintelligible?) with washin towel in it. So, you—.see a lot of that stuff you had but mainly the food that we had was raised in the garden which at one time I dug up almost a half an acre of land and made a garden and I canned over two hundred cans of food that year.
How old were you then?
I was maybe twenty, maybe.
So, did you know how to sew dresses from the burlap ba . . .
I learnt, she learnt me to sew at a early age. I learnt to crochet when I was five.
So, you learned crochet, you learned to cook . . .
I learned to sew, I learned to cook and get out there and when she would make a garden, when she was able to make a garden, I always made a little un in the corner-my own.
What would you put in your own?
Whatever she had. I had corn in mine, I had greens in mine, I had beans in mine, whatever she had, whatever she had in hern I had in mine.
So, she taught you how to do that too.
Right, and so when I had to dig it up when she was down sick, cuz we couldn't afford to pay nobody to plow it, I dug it up with a mallet and I planted it and I had a beautiful garden.
So, she taught you quite a bit.
Oh, she taught me, yeah. She started me out when I was little. You don't do like children do now, we didn't have lights in the house until nineteen and fifty. So, you used a kerosene lamp. I went to school by a lamp. That's the way I got my homework. When I got in from school, the first thing I had to do was eat somethin, I'd get my homework, and I 'd do my work I had to do outside like gettin in the wood for the fireplace and for the cook stove, if I had to go milk I'd go milk by five o'clock and get that done then I'd sit down and do my homework. That's the way you did things. I mean you didn't sit around and be idle, like children are now.
She taught you how to can?
She taught me how to can and I still can.
Did she teach you how to use herbs as well?
Yes, but some of em I have forgotten since I been away from home, but some of em I still know how to do.
Do you use them from time to time?
Every now and then, some. Like catnip or something like that and see you got Ground Ivy out here they used to use that for babies when they was hollerin, when they was babies and the yard out here is full of it. I could show you some of it.
Yes, I'd like to see that.
But, uh . . . you didn't . . . see, the only thing we mainly bought from
the store back then was . . . cuz we had chickens, we had cows, we had
hogs, we had horses, my father was a licensed butcher (K asks if it was her real father and she replies yes)
Really? The hogheads? How would you carry em around?
No, I'd call and tell somebody if they wanted it, I had it and they'd give me a dollar for it. So, that was my little spending change.
And they'd just come and pick it up?
Uhhuh . . . And see so you had your meat, corn—We lived on a
farm, we had a hundred and something acres. Which some of the whites
said we were living better that they were. But, it still was hard work.
You set out tobacco, you raise tobacco, you raise corn, you raised hay
for your livestock, and the corn for your livestock, well when the field
was prepared for your tobacco, first you burn -back then you could burn
your tobacco beds-that was to keep the weeds up-you sowed it and you
covered it with canvas-when the
Really, and that was called a what now?
A tobacco setter and it had a little reservoir on it where you poured the water so when you pulled the lever up the water would go in with the plant. So, that's the way you'd set em out and then somebody would come behind you and fill the dirt in around it. So, I done that when I was little.
Hmmm, so if you had anything extra, would you sell it?
They did. All the children went out and worked. If they had to go and pick up rocks they would go a certain time of year and picked up rocks off the field. You go get on that sled and you help them pull up them rocks. You'd do the best you could.
You would help the children?
You would help your uncle, your daddy, granddaddy or whoever was doing
it.
Well, going back to what you raised and what you had to buy to eat. You
had your chicken, you had your corn, you had your hogs, you had your
milk, so what you . . . and you had your garden and your raised
everything that your could. And the main things that you bought from the
store was like flour, not meal because you took your corn to the mill
and they grinded it and you put it in a can and you take a big sack,
maybe two and they grinded it and you put in a tin can and that would
keep weevils and things out of it. So, you bough—.you didn't
have to buy your eggs, 'cause you had your eggs from your chickens, you
had ducks, so you didn't have to anything about gettin duck eggs or
anything. We had ducks. We had geese and we bought cereal sometimes, but
back then you only had Corn Flakes and what was the other un daddy?
(J. T., her husband, had just walked into the room) (It sounds
like he says Cream of Wheat, but Geraldine answers Shredded
Wheat) (J.T. corrects her "Cream of Wheat")
You guys were living pretty good.
Yeah, but it was hard. It was hard. It was hard. That's the life on the farm.
You did a little bit of this. Can you describe for me a basic day? Say when you were twelve years old-from the beginning, waking up in the morning til you went to bed.
You say twelve years old? (K must have nodded because she begins)
So, you mean the government?
The government wouldn't help us. So, a lot of times we went to bed with milk and bread. Make a cake-corn bread and crumbled it in your milk and eat it and go to bedlong as you was full. You was . . . how, can I say it? You didn't think about it. I mean that's just somethin you done, at least you had a full stomach and you went on to bed and you done. You made your quilts.
So, you also knew how to quilt?
I made my first quilt when I was in high shool and I made my first big crochet piece when I was in high school.
Do you still know how to do those things?
Oh yeah, I still crochet a lot and I still make quilts. I've made all my children quilts and I've started on all my grandkids. I made the two boys one each last year for Christmas. I've got three more to make.
I'd like to see some of those.
Well, they all got em. I've got one in there on my bed. Well, it's not in there now -it's in there on the bed where you are. But, uh . . . those is things that you learned to do.
So, let me get an idea of the community in Barnardsville. You lived on the farm with grandmother Coon and granfather until he died. Who else was around you in terms of family and friends.
My uncle and his wife, which was Dennis, L.D. which was his son. His name was Daniel. And his wife was named Ada. Ada is the one that died in '56. She died in January of '56, last part of January. Then when I came back home he got down sick, so I had him and my grandmother. He (Uncle Dennis) had bone cancer. I went to call him for breakfast one morning and he couldn't get up and I went in to see about him and I pulled him up and when I turned him loose, he fell. So, I spent a day in the hospital and not find out anything-brought him back home and kept him there a week, was givin him the medication, then we had to put him back in there and they found out he had bone cancer and his back was in [two?]. That's why he couldn't set up. So, looked after him for a while til I could get him into a nursing home.
This is when you were graduated from high school?
I was out of high school then. So, that was—.that was most of my life. I worked hard all my life. You didn't have toys like kids have now. My first toys that I remember—I would say I was six or seven years old -that I can remember was a tea set, a little tiny china tea set, with a willow pattern. Which I still have.
You still have that?
Yeah, I gave it to Dottie, but I think got em back there in the room. If
I don't, Dottie's got em and uh they were china. And I think out of the
whole set that they gave me, I broke
When did the house burn down?
It burned down in '67, I think it was. Yeah.
How did that happen?
I was told that somebody set it. 'Cause see I was married then and living out here and uh the next Christmas I got a Napoleon puzzle.
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You were telling me about life on the farm in Barnardsville and how you had to work real hard.
And the next Christmas as I was saying, I got a Napoleon puzzle and when the tobacco was sold I got a tricycle, but that was before Christmas and I got down with the chicken pox, no with the measles—
And what year was this?
It was in the fifties—.maybe '53 or '54 and I wanted a pair of skates and my dad got me a pair and I learned to skate in the house.
So, your father was back then?
He was in and out, cuz see my grandmother was sick too and he was in and
out. And then him and his second wife had divorced and he had married a
third wife. Her name was Gladys Campbell. She wasnt too nice to me. She
had uh split personality—She'd had
So, you graduated from Weaverville Colored School in 8th grade?
Mmhmm . . . and I graduated from Stephen Lee High School in '55.
1955?
1955.
What was your favorite subject in high school?
I liked Home Economics and I liked Art. I took two years of Art and I took two years of Home Economics. And I also liked library service. I liked library service.
So, how was it that you managed to graduate so early?
Good question. As I said, I liked going to school. I just enjoyed it, because that was my outing and I guess in a way of speaking that was my freedom more or less, when I was out, cuz when I was home I was always out with the older people and workin'. So, I enjoyed going to school. I hated to miss a day of school. I never failed a class, never failed a class.
And you generally got really good grades?
Uhhuh.
What was the school year like? Did it start in September and go to June or was it different?
Start in September and go to June.
And during the summer you would work in the fields?
That's right.
So, being such a good student, did you ever think that you might want to go to college?
I did want to go on. But, you see at the time she was sick and—she had raised me so I had to stay with her. Now, my aunt had five children, but she wouldn't let them stay with her. So, it was me, because I guess that was my punishment for her raising me.
Punishment?
I would say, the way she did it, it was more or less like a punishment, you know. The way my aunt done it, it was more or less like a punishment. She told me, "that's yo job, you have to." But, uh . . . nevertheless, right after I got out of school, I took a commercial art course, correspondence. And uh, then I married in 1960.
In 1960?
January 12, 1960.
I'm going to get to that next. So, in your mind if you hadn't had to stay with your grandmother, then you would have gone to college?
Yes, I would have loved to went on.
What do you think you would have gone into?
I don't know, it was a lot of things I liked—might a went into cosmetology or I could a went on into art. I don't know, as of now, and I might have ended up bein a nurse, because as I said, I've looked after a lot of people.
Sounds like it.
Well, see I've looked after my grandmother, my uncle, J.T.'s mother, his grandmother, I helped with his grandmother, his aunt, and all of them and then I've looked after two white ladies.
Who?
Uh—the lady that left me the car. I looked after her mother. Her mother died in my arms.
What was her name?
Her name was Olivia Fichett.
And how did you come to be associated with her?
She was here in the community. She was the mother . . . Olivia was uh a postal worker and she was always here in the Post Office and I was a little girl going to school. So, I've always knowed her.
So, when she got sick you went and helped her out?
Well, I helped her and Dottie also helped her. My daughter also helped her and I would stay with em at night when she got so much worse and Dottie would come in from school and work for em in the evening and I'd go at seven o'clock and stay til the next morning.
So, this is something where you guys had been friends or she was just somebody in the community you decided to help?
Well, she was just—she was an old Southern lady from down in Charleston somewhere, but she always seemed to love J.T. and uh she knew us growin up—and I can't really tell you how we got into it. It was just something that happened.
That you just did. And so, who was the other woman that you said you helped?
Her daughter.
So, you helped both of them.
Helped both of them and also J.T. was workin for a couple that moved here from Mississippi. He was from Mississippi—I mean he was from Kentucky and she was from Mississippi. They were the Quizzendairies and we helped them. Well, ended up both of them got down sick and we had to look after them. So, I've spent most of my life helpin other people. Which is does take a toll on you-Now my health-because the doctor told my husband-Well, he wasn't my husband at the time, if I didn't quit liftin and goin on with my grandmother, because you see she was completely helpless, I was gon be in the cemetary and she'd still be here. Because, I'd messed up my back-just different things. But, you do what you have to do and you go on-I mean it just becomes a part of you, you go on and do it.
Yeah. So, what did you do between 1955 and 1960?
Looked after my grandmother. I worked for a while when I was in Cincinatti with a lady that had cancer.
So, how did you happen to end up in Cincinatti?
My father was living there—I had been goin there ever since I was four years old. My uncle lived there.
To visit?
Uhhuh and I remember when I was four years old going there and I
remember going to the Cincinatti zoo and seein the snakes. That's what I
remember of then. And then we would go back cuz my grandfather's brother
lived there, to visit and then dad after he left
So, how many times did you go visit Cincinatti?
Oh, goodness, I don't have any idea—I haven't been back up there since dad left. Dad left up there in the seven—.uh last part of the sixties.
So, you would say several times throughout your childhood?
Yes, just several times.
During summers?
Yeah.
So, sometime after graduating from high school like when you were sixteen years old you decided to go there?
Yes, and uh when she got sick that's when my aunt called and told me to come back.
Oh, I see. So, you were going to stay in Cincinatti and maybe go to school out there?
Right, see I was right down from UC [University of Cincinatti]. I could have just walked down the street and went to UC. Cuz, we was livin on street where the end of the street was UC.
I see, so you had a job there?
I had a job helpin a lady who had cancer. I came home like on a weekend and the next weekend she had died. She had terminal cancer when I was there lookin after her. So, I've always ended up helpin people-it just look like that was my . . . my
Your calling.
My calling, helpin people.
So, when your were living here before you got married, taking care of your grandmother did you have an outside job?
No, I couldn't cuz uh I had to look after her. Cuz see every move was mine cuz she couldn't do it, see she had a wheel chair then.
Did you have hobbies, things that you did for fun?
I sewed, I drawed, I crocheted, that was it.
Hmm. do you have any of your drawings from that time period?
I think I got one or two somewhere. I don't know exactly where they are, but I do have one or two.
So, you're an artist.