Well, they were the ones thinking about, complaining, the white kids
were complaining or just some little snide remark. He got elected
because he's black, that kind of stuff. They would probably never say it
during a class because I don't want outside things to come in on the
class unless it's pertinent to the time. Government will but not too
often will Spanish. But the remark before class or after class, and if I
see a teachable moment, I'm going to take a few minutes of class and let
them know my thoughts on it. I don't mind sharing my thoughts when it
comes to something like that. Then last year I heard some kids here they
were in Spanish, and right before class they were talking about all
these Spanish, Mexicans or Hispanic people. There's a, one of the
suburbs evidently has a square—and they don't like it at
all—where there's a house operated by the diocese where they
can come and get help. Like it's a regular house. But they've made it
into a center because they always gathered in this square. Evidently if
you need someone to help you pour concrete, you go up and negotiate with
someone and take them off and bring them back at the end of the day and
give them the cash. This house they devoted to, or the diocese and
people there, their Hispanic ministry that gives them doctors, makes
sure they get to their doctor's places. Any kind of difficulty with
whatever, they help sort of straighten out anything, and evidently the
city is trying to find a way to move them out of that area without, to
me in my estimation, looking prejudiced. I don't know if that's all
true. You know all these Hispanics. So the kids were talking about they
won't learn English and be in linguistics. In linguistics the first
generation doesn't know English. The second generation knows poor
English, and the third generation knows
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good English or as good as they can get. Obviously they're not English
scholars, but they're obviously quite fluent in it. We were all, you
can't keep a kid in this society from learning English. They're going to
learn English in school. There's, as soon as you turn on the TV set,
they want to know what that is. There's not, they're going to learn
English. But they expected these people, I said you have Spanish fifty
minutes a day. You don't, for two or three years. It takes them until
about the end of the third year to start really thinking in Spanish, and
the fourth year the class is totally conducted in Spanish before you can
even speak the simplest of Spanish, and you want these people to learn
it—. Well, they just want it dadadadada. They were going on a
rage and all this kind of stuff. What did one of them say? I wanted to
get on with the subject. But it really bothered me what they said. I
went home and thought about it and thought about it, and the next day I
told the class. I said, I cut it short, but I want to address this issue
because it really bothered me what you were saying. The things you were
saying were exactly some of the things they said about African American
students when they were first coming to school and in our society. These
kids would just to the nth degree deny that they were prejudiced. I
said, unless you were from Great Britain or from Ireland when you're
relatives came to this country, they did not know English. I said, and
they spoke, they probably spoke their language. Your great grandfather,
your grandfather spoke their language, and they just learned, just a few
words in English and your parents learned better English because they
went to school. I said you can look—and I guess this was a dig
at their English—I said look at some of the things that you
say. I said, that's because you've learned, a parents that didn't learn
the English very well and you're still saying it. Me and him is going
downtown. Do you see plural subject and a
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verb, and you're using objective case, and the reason why some of you
can't learn Spanish is because you're translating literally from your
bad English. I was letting them have it. Getting in a little dig in
my—. I said I don't want to hear any more of it. I said the
people will learn Spanish when they live here, uh, learn English when
they live here long enough and before that you can't expect them to just
turn it on. They are talking about survival. They haven't got time to
take but just the bare minimum in English. They're coming for the same
reason you're coming for, that your parents came for, and that was, I
tried to relate it to the things that I've seen in the past of all the
different.
Maybe that's why we went through integration I think a lot easier than
some of the public schools because there were so many—. A lot
of the Italians had little stores in the city. The little stores were in
black neighborhoods, and they had a sympathy for them that some of the
people that were the nicest in my class before integration were Italian
descent. I think because they, maybe they remembered what a hard time
the prejudice of the grandfathers went and the Lebanese too
were—. They had the same difficulties and they were
succeeding, and they didn't seem to mind that other people wanted to
succeed in it. So but I think with all the different, I think in many
ways I don't know—. We're the most integrated school in the
city. Even before we were totally integrated with the black students
because we had every income. We had kids that were so wealthy they
could've bought us out. They wore uniforms. You don't know what kind of
wealth they have. Then some that were, everything was furnished down to
their pencils and their books in those days. So we had all classes, and
like I say, a big segment of the Lebanese and the Italians and the other
predominantly white groups. They, maybe they were sort of used to
getting along. The other thing, many of these community schools, they go
from their
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high to their high school. Whereas we attract from about a three county
area, and there's a lot of inner city schools that, grade schools that
come here. They come from all different parishes. So they might come
from a school that maybe they know only five or six freshmen, and they
might not be in their class. So they have to learn all the other about
the other kids and make friends outside their usual group. They complain
that dating's awful hard because one comes from one county and one,
they're trying to find, date someone that's forty miles from them and to
go on a date the guy has to drive eighty miles in order to get her and
take her home. So probably by the time they're a senior they like all
that time together. I'm not sure it's for the right reasons. But anyway
they, there's no dating in their neighborhood in some instances. So as
far as the interracial dating, they, we have had kids, I don't know,
maybe after here five or six or seven years that were going together to
dances. I think it was more of a friendship than actual interracial
dating. There is so many, today here in the South you see so many
interracial couples. I don't mean every fifth couple, but you see so
much of it. You don't, your head doesn't even turn. You just, you might
or may not even notice it. The other thing which is I guess bad, has a
good side as well as a bad side, there are so few kids available for
adoption. You have an awful lot, not a lot, but enough interracial
adoption in this, again that's not that unusual. I don't know of any
graduates that a black married a white. But I know that we have parents
that sort of I don't know. I wouldn't call it even a surprise. It's
definitely not a shock where a black parent comes to see you for a
conference, and you say, oh you're so and so's mother. Okay. But there's
enough of that that you're not even surprised anymore. It's just when a
parent comes I try to look at their face and see if I know them from
another generation something like that and
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them up, but sometimes there's no matching up. We've had some kids that
are, one family we had the boy was white. The girl was black and the
second girl was oriental. They adopted all three of them. So now there's
enough of that that you're not, you do see a lot of that. I think I
mentioned the freshman I think, because maybe their atmosphere in the
Catholic grade schools was so restricted or what or they're not used to
changing classes. Some of the grade schools are so small they don't have
lockers and stuff like that. They're in the same classroom, and the
teacher might come in and change but they don't. It seems like they have
a competition of how many they can hug because now they can hug, and
they, it's indiscriminate. Boys hugging boys. Girls hugging girls.
There's no difference between the races. They're always hugging each
other. By the time they're seniors they're making fun of the freshmen
that do that, and they clutter the halls because they've all got to have
these group hugs and so on. You can't get around them and the typical
Catholic response is, a phone book between you. The distance of a phone
book between you. They look at me like I'm crazy because that's a whole
new generation
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distance of a phone book between you and if it gets too long I'll
threaten them with what do you call it—. Petty
something—there's three initials—