Well, they were the ones thinking about, complaining, the white kids
were complaining or just some little snide remark. He got elected
because he's black, that kind of stuff. They would probably never say it
during a class because I don't want outside things to come in on the
class unless it's pertinent to the time. Government will but not too
often will Spanish. But the remark before class or after class, and if I
see a teachable moment, I'm going to take a few minutes of class and let
them know my thoughts on it. I don't mind sharing my thoughts when it
comes to something like that. Then last year I heard some kids here they
were in Spanish, and right before class they were talking about all
these Spanish, Mexicans or Hispanic people. There's a, one of the
suburbs evidently has a square—and they don't like it at all—where
there's a house operated by the diocese where they can come and get
help. Like it's a regular house. But they've made it into a center
because they always gathered in this square. Evidently if you need
someone to help you pour concrete, you go up and negotiate with someone
and take them off and bring them back at the end of the day and give
them the cash. This house they devoted to, or the diocese and people
there, their Hispanic ministry that gives them doctors, makes sure they
get to their doctor's places. Any kind of difficulty with whatever, they
help sort of straighten out anything, and evidently the city is trying
to find a way to move them out of that area without, to me in my
estimation, looking prejudiced. I don't know if that's all true. You
know all these Hispanics. So the kids were talking about they won't
learn English and be in linguistics. In linguistics the first generation
doesn't know English. The second generation knows poor English, and the
third generation knows perfectly good English or as
good as they can get. Obviously they're not English scholars, but
they're obviously quite fluent in it. We were all, you can't keep a kid
in this society from learning English. They're going to learn English in
school. There's, as soon as you turn on the TV set, they want to know
what that is. There's not, they're going to learn English. But they
expected these people, I said you have Spanish fifty minutes a day. You
don't, for two or three years. It takes them until about the end of the
third year to start really thinking in Spanish, and the fourth year the
class is totally conducted in Spanish before you can even speak the
simplest of Spanish, and you want these people to learn it—. Well, they
just want it dadadadada. They were going on a rage and all this kind of
stuff. What did one of them say? I wanted to get on with the subject.
But it really bothered me what they said. I went home and thought about
it and thought about it, and the next day I told the class. I said, I
cut it short, but I want to address this issue because it really
bothered me what you were saying. The things you were saying were
exactly some of the things they said about African American students
when they were first coming to school and in our society. These kids
would just to the nth degree deny that they were prejudiced. I said,
unless you were from Great Britain or from Ireland when you're relatives
came to this country, they did not know English. I said, and they spoke,
they probably spoke their language. Your great grandfather, your
grandfather spoke their language, and they just learned, just a few
words in English and your parents learned better English because they
went to school. I said you can look—and I guess this was a dig at their
English—I said look at some of the things that you say. I said, that's
because you've learned, a parents that didn't learn the English very
well and you're still saying it. Me and him is going downtown. Do you
see plural subject and a singular verb, and you're
using objective case, and the reason why some of you can't learn Spanish
is because you're translating literally from your bad English. I was
letting them have it. Getting in a little dig in my—. I said I don't
want to hear any more of it. I said the people will learn Spanish when
they live here, uh, learn English when they live here long enough and
before that you can't expect them to just turn it on. They are talking
about survival. They haven't got time to take but just the bare minimum
in English. They're coming for the same reason you're coming for, that
your parents came for, and that was, I tried to relate it to the things
that I've seen in the past of all the different.
Maybe that's why we went through integration I think a lot easier than
some of the public schools because there were so many—. A lot of the
Italians had little stores in the city. The little stores were in black
neighborhoods, and they had a sympathy for them that some of the people
that were the nicest in my class before integration were Italian
descent. I think because they, maybe they remembered what a hard time
the prejudice of the grandfathers went and the Lebanese too were—. They
had the same difficulties and they were succeeding, and they didn't seem
to mind that other people wanted to succeed in it. So but I think with
all the different, I think in many ways I don't know—. We're the most
integrated school in the city. Even before we were totally integrated
with the black students because we had every income. We had kids that
were so wealthy they could've bought us out. They wore uniforms. You
don't know what kind of wealth they have. Then some that were,
everything was furnished down to their pencils and their books in those
days. So we had all classes, and like I say, a big segment of the
Lebanese and the Italians and the other predominantly white groups.
They, maybe they were sort of used to getting along. The other thing,
many of these community schools, they go from their grade school together to their junior high to their high school.
Whereas we attract from about a three county area, and there's a lot of
inner city schools that, grade schools that come here. They come from
all different parishes. So they might come from a school that maybe they
know only five or six freshmen, and they might not be in their class. So
they have to learn all the other about the other kids and make friends
outside their usual group. They complain that dating's awful hard
because one comes from one county and one, they're trying to find, date
someone that's forty miles from them and to go on a date the guy has to
drive eighty miles in order to get her and take her home. So probably by
the time they're a senior they like all that time together. I'm not sure
it's for the right reasons. But anyway they, there's no dating in their
neighborhood in some instances. So as far as the interracial dating,
they, we have had kids, I don't know, maybe after here five or six or
seven years that were going together to dances. I think it was more of a
friendship than actual interracial dating. There is so many, today here
in the South you see so many interracial couples. I don't mean every
fifth couple, but you see so much of it. You don't, your head doesn't
even turn. You just, you might or may not even notice it. The other
thing which is I guess bad, has a good side as well as a bad side, there
are so few kids available for adoption. You have an awful lot, not a
lot, but enough interracial adoption in this, again that's not that
unusual. I don't know of any graduates that a black married a white. But
I know that we have parents that sort of I don't know. I wouldn't call
it even a surprise. It's definitely not a shock where a black parent
comes to see you for a conference, and you say, oh you're so and so's
mother. Okay. But there's enough of that that you're not even surprised
anymore. It's just when a parent comes I try to look at their face and
see if I know them from another generation something like that and match them up, but sometimes there's no matching
up. We've had some kids that are, one family we had the boy was white.
The girl was black and the second girl was oriental. They adopted all
three of them. So now there's enough of that that you're not, you do see
a lot of that. I think I mentioned the freshman I think, because maybe
their atmosphere in the Catholic grade schools was so restricted or what
or they're not used to changing classes. Some of the grade schools are
so small they don't have lockers and stuff like that. They're in the
same classroom, and the teacher might come in and change but they don't.
It seems like they have a competition of how many they can hug because
now they can hug, and they, it's indiscriminate. Boys hugging boys.
Girls hugging girls. There's no difference between the races. They're
always hugging each other. By the time they're seniors they're making
fun of the freshmen that do that, and they clutter the halls because
they've all got to have these group hugs and so on. You can't get around
them and the typical Catholic response is, a phone book between you. The
distance of a phone book between you. They look at me like I'm crazy
because that's a whole new generation [unclear]
. Ah, ah, the distance of a phone book between you and if it gets
too long I'll threaten them with what do you call it—. Petty
something—there's three initials—