Mill family life
Durham describes why his father left home and how his parents met, married, and made ends meet. It includes some interesting tidbits about mill family housekeeping.
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Oral History Interview with Frank Durham, September 10 and 17, 1979. Interview H-0067. Southern Oral History Program Collection (#4007) in the Southern Oral History Program Collection, Southern Historical Collection, Wilson Library, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.
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- DOUGLAS DENATALE:
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Did your father move to Bynum?
- FRANK DURHAM:
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Yes, he came here when he was a kid boy. His daddy died and his mother
married again, and he left home, he and his sister and two brothers. Up
here in the country around Brown's Chapel somewhere. They had a sort of
falling out before they was any age at all, hardly. His sister had done
left. She was the oldest. She'd left and gone to work somewhere. She
went to work when she was about fourteen years old. Well, Papa took his
two brothers and went to Saxapahaw. That's another mill town right on up
by the river. And he had an aunt that lived up there. He stayed up there
a while, and then they walked away from up there and walked down here.
He had another aunt that lived over there. She wrote and told them to
come down here and stay with her. It was his daddy's sister. So they
come down here, and he went to work in the mill and
just stayed there with her. He was just twelve
years old when he went. But that'sthey left
home. And he never went back any more. I never heard tell of them going
back till his mother had some kind of stroke or something, and somebody
come down here after him. And he went up there, but she was dead when he
got there. They had no fuss or nothing, but they just couldn't get
along, seemingly. And she told him, "Well, you all go"
and told them where to go, and they took off. And they've been on their
own ever since. Pa left there then andworked
down there till he was about seventeen years old.
got him a job down there , and stayed down
there a pretty good while. He come back here and married.
- DOUGLAS DENATALE:
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Did he come back here to marry?
- FRANK DURHAM:
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Yes, he come back here and married my mother. She was a Moore. And he was
made, finally, overseer. Second hand and then the overseer of the
spinning, and then he stayed that way till he retired. He had to retire.
He left the mill-oh, a long time-in '44. And after
that he just bought and sold real estate. He had a heart attack or
something. And he got over it. For about two years he didn't do
anything, but just like the doctor told him over here, doctor at Watts
Hospital. He got over that, seemingly, went back to work just doing what
he wanted to, buying and selling stuff to pick up a little money.
to keep going. Never did have to sell nothing
anway.
- DOUGLAS DENATALE:
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So he managed to save all that money working in the mill?
- FRANK DURHAM:
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Yes. Lord, I don't see how he did it.
- DOUGLAS DENATALE:
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That's amazing.
- FRANK DURHAM:
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Him and Mama built the house on up the road up yonder in 1909. They
stayed there ten years and come down here in 1919. And I don't see how
he ever done that. They didn't have nothing, you see. And I think he
didn't have much money, but they had a mighty good living. But there was
three acres of land up there with that thing, and he tended and did
everything he could. He had a wonderful garden and kept two cows, and he
raised hogs and chickens, and they raised everything they ate, just
about.